Girlfriend’s aunt is in love with me

Dear Pastor,

Recently I met a young woman and I fell in love with her. I do not fall in love easily, but this young woman is very attractive and sexy.

She told me that she does not have children, but she would like to, even one. She is living with her aunt and uncle. They live in a very lovely home in St Andrew. They used to live in America, but her uncle said he was tired of that country, so he came home. But now that he is here, he wants to go back because he cannot deal with the violence.

I do not have a regular job; I do landscaping. This man asked me to do some work on his property for him and I agreed. They took me on and were treating me like a member of their family. This man does not like to drive, so I started to take him wherever he wanted to go. His wife is always staring at me. So I asked my girlfriend why she is always starring at me. She said that she did not know. This woman is always inviting me to have dinner with them, even when I am not working at their home.

Now my girlfriend tells me that her uncle says that his wife loves me and he does not want me to come around as often as I used to. I am surprised at the situation because my girlfriend says that she believes that I am also in love with her aunt.

This woman is 62 years old and her uncle is in his 70s. I would not want to pass my place and get involved with her. I still want to work for them because they pay me well. Tell me how to handle this situation.

L.H.

Dear L.H.,

You have not said whether this man is speaking the truth. I believe that you know that you are admiring his wife as much as she is admiring you, and your girlfriend is concerned about that too. Therefore, when you are asked to do anything on the premises, do so without having any long or unnecessary arguments with this woman.

In fact, it would be better for you not to go back to that place to work because your going there will cause contention between that man and his wife. You have survived working and paying your bills without working at that premises. So, I suggest that you cease from going there. When you want to see your girlfriend, meet with her at another place.

I warn you, don't go back to that man's yard.

Pastor